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Mistakes upbringing: how not to make a boy Gay
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As the formation of sexual orientation rights, so still not found.
While continuously conducted various studies and put forward several
theories on this subject - the genetic, nevrogennaya, endocrine,
embryo, psychoanalytical - yet it must be recognized that the results
are contradictory. And certainty in the matter, alas, no. And, then
there is no single, scientific theory.
But if the approach to the problem practically, from the
standpoint of daily life, we can perhaps talk exclusively on Freud's
theory of psychoanalysis.
Unlike other researchers, Freud did not try to look for the
biological origins of this phenomenon, and the opening of its
psychological causes. According to Freud's hypothesis, there are men or
boys in the mainstream become gay, is determined, above all, his
family, which grew up the child, namely: the methods of education and
relationship with the boy's parents. Of course, the important role
still played by children and the whole experience of the child as a
whole, including communication with peers, other adults and expertise
drawn from them to the media. However, in determining the degree of
sexual identity of the child, according to Freud, lay in the family.
So, what is necessary to take into account the parents that do not affect the twisted perception of boys their gender?
1. Valuable relationships with both parents
We all go through as a child "gomoerotichnuyu" stage, when the
attachment to a similar stronger. And there is nothing abnormal.
Abnormal, if a boy is delayed at the homosexual stage. This can happen
when it loses communication with his father and has a very close
attachment to the mother. We need to ensure that in the mother-son
relationship and a son-father respected the right balance. More
difficult, of course, mothers. But the way seemed to them that at this
stage of development to give the boy in any section where the missing
communication with her father to compensate for male teachers.
2. Formation of the male character
No matter what the skeptics say, however, there is some connection
between homosexuality and the nature of man. These qualities of
fearlessness to all challenges, healthy asceticism, regardless of
someone else's opinion, masculinity in the decision-making, the ability
to take responsibility for other people and ... (as it may sound
pafosno) heroism. All these qualities can be developed in a boy with
the help of the methods of education for democracy. Dictates not say,
if you want to have formed men's firmness of spirit.
3. Sustainable development psychoemotional
Since there is an assumption that mental terms homosexuality are
nervous, unrestrained emotion in people, it is necessary to ensure the
sustainable development of the child psychoemotional. For this is the
family atmosphere should be conducive to the balanced, tolerant
expression of feelings. Remove from your social aggressiveness and
cruelty. In laying the foundation of respect and acceptance of
different views, ability to forgive.
4. Worthy art education
Cultural educated people will always be adequate and harmonious.
His ideals will be formed in terms of traditional culture. Properly
adjust the tastes, habits, addictions boy. Teach him to understand the
fine, to distinguish the true art of the environment. Do not keep a boy
in a "nartsissizma. Target it to worthy ideals. Thrust for excellence
in artistic sense and prejudge its perfect development in sexual
relations.
Even if you do not believe in the theory of Freud's
psychoanalysis, and I do not think that the role of family education on
the issue of sexual orientation is important, agreed: to educate the
boy out of this man, in any case - a worthy cause.
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As the formation of sexual orientation rights, so still not found.
While continuously conducted various studies and put forward several
theories on this subject - the genetic, nevrogennaya, endocrine,
embryo, psychoanalytical - yet it must be recognized that the results
are contradictory. And certainty in the matter, alas, no. And, then
there is no single, scientific theory. 
